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Whatever happens to me at strip clubs, with dancers, or
g-strings will be documented here so that you can see how "boned" out I can
get sometimes. All the names have not been changed and there is no
such thing as "off the record."
WEHT All The DOMs
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| NAME | DATE | WEHT |
|---|---|---|
| Victoria | November 1999 | I don't really know her very well and I assume she is still working at the Main Attraction. |
| Alyssa | October 1999 | Brittany O'Connell introduced me to her at Rayne's Curveball 1999. I have not seen her since then but I assume she still works at Imperial. |
| Trouble | August 1999 | I first met Trouble at the KLSX radio station when she came to do a show with Brittany. We've only emailed each other since and I assume she is still at TJ's |
| Harmony | July 1999 | I've hung out with Harmony a bit and came on to her girlfriends (with no luck) but I've not seen her for a few months. She was nice enough to give me a Christmas card from one of her friends. I've heard that she might be working at Hollywood Cabaret. If you see her there, tell her Z said hello. She's a sweetie. |
| Kayla | June 1999 | She is one of 2 Canadian DOMs whom I have never met. |
| Vanessa | May 1999 | Vanessa wants to be a full fledged feature and she might be on her way there. She sure has the drive and determination for it. I haven't seen her in a while but I assume she's still at 215. |
| Crystal | April 1999 | Crystal is sometimes working at Star Strip Too but is semi-retired. She has not done anymore centerfolds that I know of and is currently living in the artist district in downtown and sometimes promotes rave parties. |
| Candi | March 1999 | Candi would like her identity to be kept a secret so I won't go there, but I saw her tonight and she wasn't very happy. |
| Tanna | February 1999 | I used to talk to her all the time on ICQ but lately, I've lost touch with her. I think she is still working at Star Gardens. If you see her there, tell her Z said hi. She's got a 'tude but it's attractive on her. |
| Gigi | January 1999 | I've known Gigi longer than any other DOM. I first met Gigi back in the 80's when she was probably underaged to work at a strip club. She then dated somebody I knew, then switched to a DJ/musician that I later met at a strip club. Any guy or gal that knows her will tell you she's a hottie and a half. I assume she is still dancing and working on her music career. I've seen her perform at the Roxy and I have one of her CDs. She's actually pretty good. She comes and goes a lot so I sort of lost track of her but I know I'll run into her again the next time I go to a hot party. |
| Panther | December 1998 | This gal can talk non-stop when she wants to. I first met her at KLSX for the Nastyman show. I haven't seen her since the last Jet VIP I attended but there was a long line of people waiting to get laps from her. |
| Winter | November 1998 | I think I first met Winter at the Nastyman show also but I might be wrong. In any case, the last time I saw her was at the Bare Elegance a few months ago. She likes it better there than VB. |
| Léna | October 1998 | Léna is Rayne's friend and I hardly know her but I did get to meet and talk to her at the Nastyman show a few times. |
| Alex | September 1998 | I don't know Alex very well but I can tell she's probably high maintenance from the few times I talked to her. Don't get me wrong. That's not bad in my book. She's one that I certainly would love to get to know better. :) I assume she's still at SRI. |
| Zee | August 1998 | JW knows her or at least well enough to send me her pictures. I've seen her at Bare but I never really introduced myself to her until I met her at the Nastyman show. She seems a little shy but very nice indeed. |
| Brittany O'Connell |
July 1998 | I have to confess that I had seen several of her adult videos and was a mini-fan before I ever met her. Imagine my surprise when she contacted me! To top it off, she one of the sweetest dancers I know. Ah, the advantages of being me. :) I saw her at Rayne's Curveball 1999 and she was doing well and producing more movies and updating her website. |
| Anne | June 1998 | Anne is one of the people I have to thank for getting me hooked up with the Nastyman Show. I've actually known or known of her for many years but I heard she used to hate me. Luckily for me, she's changed her mind about me and I guess she at least tolerates me now. :) Just kidding Anne. Oh, and yes, she's still at Star Strip Too. |
| Christine | May 1998 | Christine is one of those enigmas that I just can't figure out. One thing I do know is she's really sexy in person. She emails me now and then to tell me what's going on with her. |
| Sheila | April 1998 | I recently helped Sheila with her website for her books and in exchange, she sent me some Amazon.com dollars. Thanks Sheila. She's still writing and has retired from dancing. She lives in the Inland Empire with her boyfriend. |
| Sasha | March 1998 | I recently saw some adult video with Sasha in it but I don't know if it's new or old footage. In any case, I always get turned on when I watch porno with girls I know in them. She may or may not still be dancing at some club somewhere. She can be the biggest tease when she wants to, but sometimes, she isn't. Huh? Oh, nevermind. |
| Jonee | February 1998 | I've been told that Jonee no longer works at California Girls. I've pretty much lost track of her but I assume she's retired from dancing. |
| Aja | July 1997 | Aside from getting some really great laps from her, I don't really know her very well. I heard that she may no longer be working at TL. |
| Alyssa | June 1997 | Alyssa got married, then divorced and now I think she has a new boyfriend. She's a sweet girl but she can get a little mixed up sometimes. She wanted her picture removed because some family members might recognize her. She can also be one of the sexiest girls you'll ever meet when she wants to turn on the heat. I once went to the Gay Pride parade with her and another girl. It was fun. I've lost track of her completely. I hope she's OK. |
| Kat | May 1997 | Kat has retired from dancing and is doing Internet adult stuff the last time I talked to her. She was doing an interview for some TV show at the LA Exotics show. I've seen her at her best and at her worst. You don't want to be on her bad side. With looks like that, she's allowed. |
| Leigh Landon |
April 1997 | Another Canadian that I have never met. However, she periodically emails me to tell me her adventures in far away lands where she features. My geography is so bad, I don't even know where these countries are located. |
| Rayne | March 1997 | Rayne is the organizer and founder of Curveball as well as Club XXXtravagant, both to help the needy. She's got the biggest heart of any dancer I know and she works her butt off for her causes. She is still dancing and sometimes does adult videos when she can. I expect to see her again at CES this January. |
| Perl | February 1997 | Perl is a very smart businesswoman but things kind of went wrong for her and the IRS basically took all the energy out of her. She is retired from dancing and I have not talked to her in quite some time. The last time I heard her was on the Tom Leykis show, talking about being molested as a child. Pearl, if you see this, contact me if you can, just to let me know you're OK. |
| Lydia | January 1997 | Lydia is one of the few DOMs (if not the only one) that was also very active on ASSC. She was at the CES ASSCon a few years back at Cheetah's in Vegas. I think she's more into B&D now but she still has her website going. |
| Holly | December 1996 | Holly graduated from UCLA and asked me to take her picture down so she can get a regular job. I think she did that for a while but the money wasn't good so she tried opening her own business. She found out that it's not so easy. So she is now thinking about opening her own strip club. |
| Gage | November 1996 | Athena introduced me to Gage at Green Hell and that's about all I know of her. |
| Desiree | October 1996 | Desiree and her daughter moved back to Key West and the last time I talked to her, she wanted to print and sell her own calendars and needed $10K seed money to start. She emailed me again but her email address did not work properly and I lost track of her. |
| Athena | September 1996 | Athena was my favorite at the Gentlemen's Club and she still sometimes works there and Body Shop. She also sometimes waitresses at Sam's. Don't let her talk or you'll never get a word in edgewise. |
| Madison | August 1996 | I saw her about a month ago and she has retired from dancing and is now an artist. |
| Shane | July 1996 | I first saw her at the Jet when she was a dancer. Then I saw her at some parties and at the July 4th party at Bruce 7's house. She has gone on from being in adult videos to producing her own line of Shane's World video series. Since then, I see her periodically at CES and parties and she's always very nice to me. Her boyfriend is in the band Orgy and he seems like a really nice guy too. Not stuck up at all. Of course, she's a cutie and a half, and a bag of chips too. |
| Terri | June 1996 | Terri got together with a new boyfriend, moved to Florida, broke up with him, got back together, then broke up again. I heard she visited LA a couple of years ago but she didn't contact me. I used to have a big crush on her. |
| Taylor | May 1996 | I found out from a 3rd party that she did not want her picture on my website, so I took it off. Just for the record, I interviewed her, asked her for permission and told her if there was any problems, to contact me. When she didn't, I assumed that it was OK. |
| Summer | April 1996 | The last time I saw her was at the finals for a dance contest where she took 1st place and won $1000 and a trophy. She danced to Ice-T (I think). I also found a Playboy video with her in it at a club in Sacramento where she's from. I sort of lost track of her but she's out there somewhere. |
| Summer Leigh |
March 1996 | Summer Leigh has become a very big name feature in the dancing circuit. She has won numerous dancing awards and was at the last Exotic Dancers Expo. I have not talked to her since the last time we talked about her website about a year or so ago but I assume she's still featuring and her website is still up. Even though she has become sort of a mini-celebrity, she's still very sweet, just like before. |
| Stayce | February 1996 | Last time I heard, she was retired from dancing. |
| C.C. Overdrive |
January 1996 | She was one of the first dancers I met at the old Eye Full (now Deja Vu Ontario) and was one of my ATFs for laps. Since then, she went back to Texas but has returned to LA a few times for visits. She is probably retired from dancing. |
| Anna | December 1995 | Anna is one of my oldest and dearest dancer friends that I have. I think I have known her for about 12 or 13 years. She has worked at different clubs over the years but is now semi-retired from dancing and is waitressing at Sam's. |
| Tristan | November 1995 | The last time I heard anything about Tristan, she was dating the owner of the Rhino. |
| Tyler | October 1995 | Tyler had a baby, moved to Guam and is now a scuba instructor and manager of the store and is retired from dancing. |
AFTSD: Z Bone's Real Diary For November 1999
December 13, 1999
When I realized that the end of the year was coming and I had absolutely no entry in my diary, I realized that I had been censoring myself a lot lately. When I used to post a lot on ASSC, I used to reveal a lot about myself but now I don't really like to do that as much. This is part of the reason for not having any diary entries. The other: Laziness. However, I did manage to contribute a little something to ASSC recently for AFTSD (A Fail To Suck Day). The following is a re-post of my AFTSD post from ASSC:
For some very complicated reasons, I didn't participate in AFTSD last year, and I decided that baring a catastrophe, I would participate this year. I know that I have pretty much neglected ASSC this year, but I do still lurk now and then. For what it's worth, here's my little contribution to ASSC for this year.
Some in the media as well as most of us here at ASSC tend to want to paint dancers in a good light because of all the negative stereotypes that have plagued the industry for so many years. We like stories about the stripper that used her money to go to college and became a great 1st amendment lawyer or the one that became a big porno star and used her fame for charities for children.
Of course, we all know, that's not the norm. Those success stories are hard to find. I find that the average dancer marries an ordinary guy, pops out a couple of kids and lives happily, for the most part, just like everybody else. I think that's a success story. Being average can be good too.
This is a short story of one particular dancer on one particular night. I picked her, not because I know her well, but because I don't. As some of you already know, I've been through the mill in terms of knowing too much about too many dancers. I've gotten to the point where I'd rather not know any more. It's too tiring. It's too much of an energy vampire for me.
Over the years, I've gotten more and more jaded and less and less tolerant of dancers and their antics. This, of course, does not bode well for the dancer that gets me on the wrong day. As some of you old time ASSCers know, I sometimes play a wannabe DJ at a strip club.
On one particular night, a dancer, (we'll call her "Lilly") asked me when she would be on stage. I told her she would be on soon and to check the list on the wall for her name. After a little while, she came back again with the same question. I became incensed, and pointed at the list and loudly said, "Here is where we are on the list. See where you are below?"
As I looked at her face, I realized something that had escaped me before this incident. She did not seem to know where her name was on the list. In an instant, it became clear to me that she was illiterate. This possibility had escaped me previously and I just thought she was stupid. Suddenly, I felt bad for my actions and gently held her hand. I raised her hand up to the list, pulled her forefinger out for her, and pointed her finger to her name. The expression on her face seemed to reflect the sadness that seemed to fill her from being embarrassed over the years by others.
I told her quietly, that she could ask me again, anytime she wanted to. She smiled at me. For the first time, I really looked at her face as a person, and not as just another dancer. Her teeth were very crooked, indicating to me that she probably had never been to the dentist as a child. She's not the beauty that one imagines of a stripper, but her smile lit her face up and the glow gave me a moment with her that I can still recall. She turned and left the DJ booth without saying another word.
The floater came by the booth later in the evening and told me that Lilly had been drinking too much and should not be put on the stage for the rest of the night. At the end of the night, Lilly returned to the DJ booth and indeed she was walking in a stupor. Never had I seen her this way before. She came to give me my tip, which she placed in my hand. Then she put more money into my pocket and said with her very strong accent, "That's for you. Only for you. Just for you."
I looked at her and told her that it was not necessary to tip me extra. She repeated her words and looked down and seemed to be in a half unconscious state. I thanked her genuinely and lowered my head to kiss her cheek, as I had done with her before. But on this occasion, she seemed to come out of her stupor in a frightened state and pushed me away. In that fraction of a second, she seemed to wake up, apologized with a simple "Sorry" and started to cry and left quickly.
I didn't know what to make of her actions. I didn't know why she was apologizing to me or why she started to cry. Did I do something wrong? Was she in some other state of mind and remembered some bad experience with a boyfriend or family member? Was it just what people do sometimes when they are too drunk? I guess I'll never know what was going through her head then, and she doesn't seem to recall the incident after that night.
As for me, I'm a lot nicer to her and maybe a little nicer to everyone. At least that's what I'd like to think. Maybe that's just my rationalization after being a jackass. Who knows? Well, that's my story for 1999. See you in Y2K.
